The languages spoken in hair salons encompass the thickness of the black diaspora

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The rhythm of the hair salon is singular, wherever in the world you end up. There are all individuals, and yet they are all the same in the ways that matter. The languages vocal in these establishments vary from the earliest ones we by any chance heard (our parents’ dialects) and encompass the breadth of the black diaspora. But in Nigeria, in England, in the US, the unrefined denominator of the hair salon is the client. These places are the territory of black women and there is a comfort that settles throughout me every time I enter one.

On a sunny afternoon in Brooklyn, I brave b be accepted in search of my summer style. My selection was run by a tall Malian lady-love, dark and pretty in that disarming way that makes you safe keeping someone without question. I watched her work, creating luxurious-looking banana intertwines on one head, her hands moving as fast as her mouth while she deal with in Bambara to her co-worker (who was herself finishing up a head of crisply off box braids). There’s no way I could know in the two minutes I watched, but I deduced a light touch. As she blew out my hair, I knew that I’d been all.

But here are some other things that felt lately right: the TV showing Malian wedding videos of griots doing praise songs. The little boy on his iPad who said mournfully, an hour in, “Mom, I hunger for you to be finished already.” The Avon lady, taking orders (stilly, in 2018!). The tween girl singing along to the song of the summer (Boo’d Up by Ella Mai). The older char protesting the amount of gel being used. And, of course, walking out three hours later, compassionate like a new banknote.